The Cougar Life Diaries

October 13, 2010

Will Courteney Cox be the Million-Dollar Cougar?

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Courteney Cox

Million-Dollar Cougar?

The world’s most infamous cougar is on the prowl again. Yes, Courteney Cox has split from David Arquette, and we hope she feels as empowered as our members do now that she’s available once again. Courteney Cox was one of the inspirations for the launch of the Internet’s wildest dating site, and we hope Courteney feels as we do — that she would be the ultimate spokesperson for our dating site; that she would empower  many of her fellow cougars to reach for more excitement and embrace the CougarLife. TMZ covers our offer here: TMZ.com: Courteney Cox: Cougar Life Spokesperson?

July 27, 2010

Laura: Let’s talk sex!

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By: Laura Lanham

I have spent time quizzing young cubs on their insatiable appetite to be with older women and the one common factor is SEX.   Most of these young men believe that older women are less inhibited, more comfortable with their bodies and love to be adventurous and I absolutely agree.

Cougars do not have time to worry about every imperfection that comes along, so instead of dwelling on them we fix them, accept them, or poke fun at them.  This allows us the ability to focus on more exciting things such as experimental toys and young cubs if we choose.   Young men are bombarded with young ladies stressing about the right outfit, the perfect hair, the best people to hang with and the hottest clubs to be seen at.  Sometimes these boys just want a fun time with no worries.

Whether they are with you for sex, for a relationship or for simple friendship I have been told that it’s nice to be around girls that don’t have to run to the bathroom every twenty minutes to check their make-up.   If I leave to go to the bathroom … I’m going to the bathroom!  The other reality of all of this is that we cougars are truly at our sexual prime and so are our young cubs.  It’s easy to match up when the sexual tension is at the same frequency.  Sex is one of those things that make the world go round so the more we talk about it the more comfortable we will all be so let’s keep talking sex.

July 16, 2010

Claudia talks to ET Canada about being a cougar

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Claudia talks to ET Canada about being a cougar, alongside her boyfriend Paul who is 14 years her junior.

Watch her interview here

July 13, 2010

Laura: Am I weird for wanting to date an older woman?

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By: Laura Lanham

Over the weekend I spoke with a cub “Joe” that was very sweet but obviously confused.  I have never met Joe but we spoke via internet throughout the day on Saturday.  He was filled with questions and curiosity about his desire to be with older women.  At 21 he felt as if he was alone and weird because his interests in older women was almost an obsession.   Being with an older woman may not be for everyone but it is not weird and is not something to obsess over.  There are plenty of woman “cougars” that enjoy the company of a younger guy.  It is not about age but about your comfort level.

I have met cubs that I am not comfortable with at all and yet I have met some that I could spend hours , even days with .  So cubs, you are not weird and there are more of you out there than you realize.

My thought is, if there is something we enjoy we obsess over it , if there is something we want but can’t have we obsess over it, and many times if there is something we want but shouldn’t have we obsess over it.  So obsessing over the type of relationship we desire is part of life, we all go through it at one time or another.

July 7, 2010

Laura: A wrinkle in time …

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By: Laura Lanham

One of my best friends, Nikki, is the owner/photographer of One Day Photography by Nicole Marie.   It’s a perfect match since I love being in front of the camera and she loves being behind the camera.  Being silly, naked, crying, smiling make-up or no make-up while she is clicking away is one of my favorite past times.  For Nikki I’m a great live model to practice on because I love to play and I’m not afraid. Recently we did a quick thirty-minute photo shoot, head shots only as per my request.   Needless to say I was thrilled with all the shots, however, for the first time I was in some need of some touch-up work.

Forty-one years into my life and finally the wrinkles were showing.  We decided to keep most of the photos untouched because there is nothing that can replace the natural beauty and sophistication of a woman but it did get me thinking ….  I believe if a cub is pursuing a cougar he knows he is getting a woman with life experiences.  The wrinkles or signs of aging that women, cougar or not, may endure are simply reminders of how experienced and beautiful we truly are.   I get to advertise my beauty and grace with one of the best photographers out there.   I have also been blessed with meeting some of the most incredible cubs that embrace everything about me, wrinkles and all.  My wrinkles in time are lines to my story and will only be erased at my request…

June 29, 2010

Laura: If it makes you happy…

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By: Laura Lanham

To date I have not found one valid reason that cougar/cub relationships are not healthy.  Cigarettes are unhealthy, no exercise is unhealthy, abuse of any kind is unhealthy but cougar/cub relationships… I don’t see it.

Laughing, smiling, and being happy regardless of age has yet to be proven as “unhealthy”.   Relationships have always been and will always be a work in progress.  Obviously there is a common ground that brings us together in the first place.  If we dissect it we can criticize anything.  Where would it stop??  Age, race, religion, gender, height, weight, the opinions are endless so do as I do or do as you want and march to the beat of your own drum.

To quote Sheryl Crow, “IF IT MAKES YOU HAPPY IT CANT BE THAT BAD” and being a cougar definitely makes me happy.

June 22, 2010

Are cougars feeling the pressure to look youthful?

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Last week, Examiner.com reported that more middle-aged women who date younger men are feeling more pressure to look youthful:

“According to a recent report, middle-aged women who date younger men — commonly referred to as Cougars — are spending large amounts of money on cosmetic surgery, despite a failing economy.”

The article also mentions that more women are opting for an “all-in-one” procedure known as TABBY — “Tightening Arms, Boobs, Bum and Youthful face.” This gauntlet of plastic surgery runs around $24,000.”

To read the rest of the article, click here.

June 17, 2010

Laura: Tom

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June 7, 2010

By: Laura Lanham

One of the most attractive cubs I have come across asked me within a week of knowing him “Laura, do you think we will have a connection?”   Honestly his question definitely freaked me out.  Tom, (not his real name) was a cub that was super hot and fun to talk to but within a week I realized I was going to have to slow this one down.  I always try and say upfront and explain that I really am just having fun and a serious anything is just not in the cards for me right now.  My first clue that the reigns needed to be tightened on Tom was when I asked, “Why are you a cougar chaser?  You are gorgeous have a successful business and can have any girl you want.”   His response, “I want you.”  Of course I came back with a witty smart ass comment to lighten the mood but he wasn’t going to let me off that easily.   Basically I got the cold shoulder for twenty-four hours.  Okay then, this means a man is a man.  They want what they want when they want it.  Age is NOT a factor.  Needless to say we talked it through.

We speak on the regular and he makes it very clear that he wants much more than I’m willing to give but I make sure he is well aware of where I stand.   If flirting was a profession I would be making millions but I know who I am and I know what I do.   I am not about breaking hearts and making my cubs beg.   I just love having them in my life.  They are all so amazing …. I couldn’t pick just one.   Well there is ONE that I could but I won’t.  Remember cougars and cubs, you are entering into a relationship of some sort.  Make sure everyone is on the same page because emotions are unpredictable and in this type of affair of the heart the scars hurt just as much.   Not going to lie I have one of the biggest scars out there.

June 2, 2010

Laura: How I define cougar…

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By: Laura Lanham

June 1, 2010

I recently announced on one of my postings on another forum that I was not interested in being placed on the same list as some of the women out there that claim to be MILFS, COUGARS, PUMAS, or SUGAR MAMAS.   After some thought and my word vomit session I thought I AM A COUGAR.   A cougar, as I see it, is any attractive woman that dates, plays or simply surrounds herself with younger men.  Most cougars I have encountered are gorgeous, have been married and have had children but have now decided to pursue new relationships.   MILFS are simply moms that are married that younger men find attractive.   They are not looking for new relationships and for the most part they don’t even realize younger men find them “HOT”.  Pumas usually range from age thirty to forty.  They have not had children or been married but enjoy dating younger men.   A sugar mama is usually over forty five and simply pays for companionship at all times.

This is how I see it.  Please, chime in because I would love to hear how society defines this rise in cougar/cub relationships.

May 28, 2010

Laura: LIKE EVERY RELATIONSHIP…

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May 26, 2010

By: Laura Lanham

The life of cougar/cub relationships can be far more challenging then it plays off to be.  If you are the cougar and choose to enter this slightly taboo arena, with it may come some backlash: typical emotional ups and downs and sometimes ignorance.  As far as our young cubs are concerned, they become kings amongst their peers, more challenged by cougars and more desired by the kitty cats (girls their own age).  Most of the cubs I have encountered love this pursuit.   As in all relationships it can be amazing and fulfilling or it can also become emotionally breaking.  For example, Adam, one of my favorite cubs, loved the thrill of making his on again, off again relationship with Michelle a tug of war between both of us.   I always knew in the end Adam would choose Michelle or one of his other kitty cats however, I was never prepared for him to use me for his chase after multiple cougars.   I have learned well from Adam so I always keep my intentions upfront with each of my cubs.  Some of my other favorite cubs know that I just enjoy fun times and I’m not looking for a committed relationship or to be a pawn.  I prefer to learn, grow and play with my young friends.  I do enjoy their efforts to be with me, and face it they are so damn yummy anyone would love this pursuit.

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